Thursday, December 22, 2022

A Major Announcement


My little funny face.

When I adopted Betsy she was three years old and had lived with the same people her entire life. I re-named her Betsy. Betsy never learned to respond to her new name. There was a broken bridge between us that I couldn't find a way to mend. She is sweet, playful and responsive; but there has always been a distance that I didn't understand. She knows the routines of the house and races me up to bed every night but never stayed. 

I have always cracked up with her funny faces that change literally from second to second.
These two photos were actually one second apart. 

Four nights ago I spent some time with Betsy and, messing with her, called her Poppy — her first given name — and 

BOOM! 

She became alert, gave me eye contact, relaxed and opened up. I continued to talk to her with that name, and everything has changed. She takes no guff from Nell anymore (who can be a bully occasionally) and even inspects Lucy for smells from the outside and for doggie dirt on her face; just like Nell does. She comes to me when I call her by name; and comes quickly!

I have a new cat living with me.

When she came to bed that night, she slept closer to me and stayed longer. She now stays the night. She reaches for my hand for rubs and pets. She purrs more. She has chirped at me!

I swear that she felt invisible before and now feels seen. Can this even be true? Have any of you had this experience?

So Betsy is now officially Poppy. Again. 

10 comments:

  1. I guess she wanted to keep her given name. Wow!

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  2. That is amazing! She obviously didn't like the name you gave her. Maybe she thought you didn't know who she was If only we knew how the feline mind worked.

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  3. That's amazing that you now have this wonderful relationship with her. All my pets have been strays, but some where adults well taken care of, so I'm sure they had names at one time. Since I never knew their names, I gave them new ones and they always eventually responded. All pets are different, but Poppy is a beautiful name. Perhaps she associates it with certain memories that are pleasant for her.

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  4. the very same thing happened with Precious. We got her from the humane society and they had her named as Precious. She had not been there long, so we did not realize it was the name her previous human had named her. For about 7 days we tried a new name on her and she did not respond. Then I called her "Precious" and she answered! Now nearly 10 years later, she still answers to HER name.

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  5. She knows her name and now you do too. She's happy about that and has accepted you. So precious and kitties are very smart. Poppy is adorable.

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  6. Awww Poppy... she loves you all the more for remembering her name! Her facial features are a lot like our Lucy's. Have a lovely Christmas! oxoxoxo

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  7. Awww Poppy, a true Christmas miracle for you both!

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  8. Yes, it's possible, some of them know their name (i think all of them do, they just choose when and whether to take notice) and only respond to that. They're much smarter than most of us realize.

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  9. OH, that is the sweetest thing we have ever heard. Poppy is absolutely beautiful and we can imagine all the faces she can make, just from that great photo! So adorable and thank you for visiting us, you cute kitty.

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